Thursday, August 7, 2008

WELL I've almost finished up my stay here in Tokyo as Ayuko and I will be heading back to Kyoto tomorrow night. I have to admit that I have really come to appreciate Tokyo not only for the sheer amount of things to do here, but also as it gave me a glimpse of what living here next year will be like. As one of the world's largest cities you truly can find almost anything you can think of in one of shops hidden throughout the city, not to mention a place to practice a huge assortment of hobbies. I have no qualms about moving here as I am sure I will be able to find far more to do than any free time I might possibly have would allow.

EVERYONE dresses well and I can truly say Tokyo is a city full of beautiful people. The major shopping districts of Shibuya, Harajuku, Ginza, and Roppongi were full of gorgeously dressed women and sharply dressed men. However this comes at a cost as Japan and especially Tokyo put an incredible emphasis on body image which often overrides any common sense people might have. Thus almost all of the women are very thin, yet it is due to starvation diets and not exercise as one sometimes encounters in America. This means that will girls are very slender they have almost no muscle tone due both to their poor diet and lack of exercise. Ayuko is not immune to this national trend and while she is a size 2 she feels she is fat. The truly shocking thing is that even at a size 2 she is slightly larger than many other Japanese girls, so you can only imagine how they can obtain such bodies. However I can only feel empathy for Japanese girls as they are under enormous pressure to be slim and beautiful, so one can only hope a healthier body image will emerge at some point.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Toyko sounds like a really amazing place, I can't imagine such a big city. That's terrible about the women feeling like they have to be super skinny. Tell Ayuko that a size two isn't fat! Even as Skeletor, I could never give up desserts, let alone food! We all miss you and hopefully we can talk soon! love you infinity times infinity

Aunt Mary said...

Chris...finally took the time to set up to message....thanks. Glad you have enjoyed your time in Tokyo... So, malnourished people in Japan, Obese people in the States....how 'bout a nice balance ? As Uncle Paul would say..."edumicate them"..or at least Ayuko...Love and miss you !

Mom said...

Isn't it amazing that we let the views and feelings of society control our health? How wacky is that? The time and energy that we waste obsessing about our weight and diets could be used in much better ways - like finding alternative fuels, curing cancer or saving the environment. Yet, as one who has stuggled with her weight for a number of years,I know that it is very difficult to make changes and do what is best for your health. But, if I have learned anything in 31 years of nursing, it is that your health is your greatest asset and also that bodies are fragile and need to be treated with care. So, Chris, take good care of yourself and tell Ayuko to do the same.
love,
Mom